Real Life Stories

Honest, relatable stories about life’s ups and downs, lessons learned, and insights from a midlife perspective.

The Gloucestershire mum who finally solved the mystery of the missing socks

The sock struggle every parent knows If you’ve ever spent a frantic morning hunting for your toddler’s missing socks, only to find one behind the sofa and the other somewhere between the car seat and the ball pit, you’ll love…

View Post

How Shirley Valentine made me dream bigger, even as a teenager

H, and Cyrus on the beach during a recent holiday in Crete, Greece Pauline Collins: My teenage heroine When I was a teenager, Pauline Collins was nothing short of a heroine. Watching her in the movie, Shirley Valentine, as a…

View Post

My 50th birthday year Botox disaster and how to avoid the same mistake

Fifty. Half a century. And I decided the only way to mark my 50th year on this planet was with a little Botox. I’d scoured reviews, found a reputable clinic, and somehow convinced H that I absolutely, desperately needed this…

View Post

Mirror, mirror: Growing up with body dysmorphia

I’ve spent most of my life in a complicated truce with the woman staring back at me in the mirror. As I inch further into my late 40s, I realise this truce is less about perfection and more about negotiation.…

View Post

Personal reflections and lessons learned during the pandemic

Pandemic: what lockdown taught us As Cyrus straps on his backpack, so excited for the first proper day of school in what feels like a lifetime, I can’t help but pause and reflect. The past couple of years have been……

View Post

How I found happiness in grief, words, and throwing punches

When my mum died at 65, the day before I was due to start a new job, life did what life does: it knocked the stuffing out of me. Flowers arrived, cards piled up, colleagues offered condolences. I cried, I…

View Post

When you lose your mum in mid-life, you lose your map too

The hardest thing about being a mum over 40 after losing my own was that she was always the first person I’d call – good or bad.

View Post