Choosing sobriety in midlife motherhood Let me be clear. I am no superhero with a cape of burp cloths. I am simply a woman who, at the age of 40, embarked on the unexpected journey of motherhood. And I made…
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Science, sentiment and queasiness At antenatal classes today, mums-to-be learn far more than breathing and relaxation techniques. The modern syllabus covers everything from hypnobirthing playlists to placenta decisions.You can eat it, donate it, or even bury it beneath your favourite…
View PostThe supportive sweat-wiper There’s a certain confidence that comes with giving birth at 40. You tell yourself you’re emotionally seasoned, worldly-wise, and not easily flustered. You’ve written your birth plan with military precision. You’ve read every blog, asked every question,…
View PostCultural curves and familial flattery Pregnancy is not a gentle journey. Beyond the swollen ankles, nausea, and stretch marks, my experience over 40 introduced an entirely new set of trials. One moment I felt confident, fit, and optimistic; the next,…
View PostFacing the emotional storm Pregnancy over 40 is rarely straightforward. The conversation often begins with risk and ends with caution. My own journey was a mix of hope, fear, and determination, muddling through lots of medical advice, online information overload,…
View PostThe curveballs you can’t dodge Life, as I’ve learned over the last few decades, has a cruel sense of timing. One minute you’re mapping out your day, the next you’re staring at news you weren’t ready for. For women in…
View PostOur sanctuary: Mercure Hotel Josefshof Waiting for your 12-week scan can feel like standing at the station while every train passes without you. For a new mum over 40 with a history of miscarriage, the anticipation can be almost unbearable.…
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