Real Life Stories

Honest, relatable stories about life’s ups and downs, lessons learned, and insights from a midlife perspective.

The Gloucestershire mum who finally solved the mystery of the missing socks

The Gloucestershire mum who finally solved the mystery of the missing socks

The sock struggle every parent knows If you’ve ever spent a frantic morning hunting for your toddler’s missing socks, only to find … View Post
How Shirley Valentine made me dream bigger, even as a teenager

How Shirley Valentine made me dream bigger, even as a teenager

H, and Cyrus on the beach during a recent holiday in Crete, Greece Pauline Collins: My teenage heroine When I was a teenager, Pauline … View Post
My 50th birthday year Botox disaster and how to avoid the same mistake

My 50th birthday year Botox disaster and how to avoid the same mistake

Fifty. Half a century. And I decided the only way to mark my 50th year on this planet was with a little Botox. I’… View Post
Mirror, mirror: Growing up with body dysmorphia

Mirror, mirror: Growing up with body dysmorphia

I’ve spent most of my life in a complicated truce with the woman staring back at me in the mirror. As I inch … View Post
Personal reflections and lessons learned during the pandemic

Personal reflections and lessons learned during the pandemic

Pandemic: what lockdown taught us As Cyrus straps on his backpack, so excited for the first proper day of school in what feels like … View Post
How I found happiness in grief, words, and throwing punches

How I found happiness in grief, words, and throwing punches

Grief does not arrive with a timetable. Mine arrived the day before I was due to start a new job, when my mum died … View Post
When you lose your mum in mid-life, you lose your map too

When you lose your mum in mid-life, you lose your map too

The hardest thing about being a mum over 40 after losing my own was that she was always the first person I'd call - good … View Post