Motherhood in your late 30s: a guest story 

Meeting a fellow mum over a cup of tea can be surprisingly restorative. I first met Lindsay Hamberg, a mum-of-three, at a trial session of Baby Boot Camp run by KeepFit Mammy. Between dissecting birth experiences, debating weaning strategies, and comparing teething remedies, our conversation flowed effortlessly. She offered practical advice and insights that were a real comfort to a mum navigating the early weeks of parenthood.

Overwhelmed by choices

After my son Cyrus was born, I felt inundated by decisions. What to buy, where to shop, what we truly needed, it was exhausting. My wish was simple: guidance from parents who had been there. Yet, as a mother over 40, I found most of my friends had teenage children, so their experiences were less relevant.

Finding support in the local community

Turning to my local community centre proved invaluable. I met a network of mums from all walks of life. Sharing experiences and advice made me feel less alone, and it offered the chance to form friendships I hope will endure for years. Even small differences in our pregnancies highlighted how unique each journey truly is.

Guest story: Lindsay Hamberg

Lindsay conceived naturally at 39. With two older children and a supportive husband, James, she was thrilled to discover she was expecting a third. Her midwife classified her as ‘low-risk,’ noting that had she turned 40 after conceiving, the label would have shifted to ‘high-risk.’ At the time, Lindsay was earning extra income selling Forever Living aloe vera products, a sideline she had pursued for two years.

Lindsay: “I began selling to family and friends, then mentoring others. The extra income has funded home renovations, a family holiday to Lanzarote, and even enabled us to welcome another baby.”

Pregnancy and labour

Lindsay’s pregnancy with Harry was smooth. Aside from iron supplements at six months and physiotherapy at eight months, she worked until delivery. Labour began unexpectedly during a Forever Living meeting, and despite her initial nerves, Lindsay embraced the process with her husband by her side. Harry, a healthy 9lb 10oz baby, arrived without complications, assisted by midwives after a brief delay due to his size.

Lindsay: “Age shouldn’t prevent anyone from having children, so long as they care for themselves.”

Age doesn’t define your pregnancy

Reflecting on her experiences, Lindsay stresses that every pregnancy is unique, regardless of age.

Lindsay: “At 24, my first pregnancy involved fetal distress. At 31, my second went overdue. But at 39, everything aligned. So long as you’re looking after yourself, there’s no problem whether you are 40 or 20.”

Lindsay’s story reminds us that support, community, and informed choices are just as important as age when it comes to pregnancy. For those navigating motherhood later in life, her experiences offer reassurance and practical guidance.